Shushman

Stories

You’re not the only one

We wrote these from experiences people often describe. They’re composites: no real person is named or quoted. Reading one can make your own easier to write.

work · more than once

There's a senior colleague who cuts me off almost every time I speak in meetings. Not rudely — smoothly, like a lane change.

work · still happening

I found out my team has a second group chat when someone laughed at a joke that was never said out loud. They plan lunches in there.

home · more than once

Every family dinner has a scorecard, and I'm always losing. An older relative — the one everyone defers to — has a way of asking about my life that is really an announcement about someone else's.

home · still happening

This is the first time this has existed outside my head. Growing up, an older sibling had a nickname for me that the whole house eventually adopted.

school · more than once

I went back to school at forty — an evening class, twice a week, something I'd wanted for years. There's a small group that sits together, younger, quick, fluent in all of it.

online · once

Someone in a group chat I'd been in for years posted a screenshot of something I wrote, cropped so it read completely differently, with a caption making fun of it. The replies came fast — jokes, reaction images, people I'd met, people I hadn't.

online · still happening

An account with a much bigger following than mine quote-posted something I made, calling it embarrassing. That was months ago.

friendship · more than once

I watched it happen to my closest friend. We were out with the wider group and one of them started in on her — the tone that's technically a joke, aimed at the same soft spot every time.